Going through puberty can be a confusing time for any of us, not only coping with the many body changes, but along with that our attitude about people, and who we may find attractive could change. As children we may like or love unconditionally, but as we grow and we become sexually aware. Attractions can and will change.

For some people growing up and beyond, their own sexuality can be in question. Exploring your own sexuality can be very frightening, and confusing time.

Peer pressure from family and friends can have a major influence on how a person believes they should behave and act. While all the time they may feel it necessary to hide what's really going on for them.

For some a later realisation manifest as this is not the life I was meant to lead. This can happen at any time in our adult life. We may have been misleading ourselves for many years, and feel the need to change path and direction.

Understanding your own sexuality is a gradual process, analyzing what you are thinking, and feeling and why this is so. Society may tell us that you can speed through the process of understanding your sexuality, which can lead into a false sense of who you really are. Getting to know yourself in a way that nobody else knows about, is paramount in a better understanding.

Every one develops in different ways and at different times. Understanding the most intimate parts of you comes with time and understanding.